If I had the choice, I would just choose to not pursue a relationship knowing that she was going to die in a year. It would be a hard choice
It would be hard to enjoy a relationship knowing when it will end. I couldnt stop thinking of what I'll do after it's over.
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i feel like this could be undermining the value of the now.
ReplyDeletewhen your grandparent is on their deathbed, it's about understanding exactly what it is that you are choosing to pursue. what time spent with them means...
knowing how the passing person is, will add it's own definition to what defines your 'relationship'.
and,
sometimes, it does oddly allow for peace.
because, otherwise; if all were as worred to become as apathetic or self-serving as your first honest answer, then
what would that person be.
who would they have?
who would they confide in or disclose anything to?
and what would give them any reason then to continue existing in such a dejected identity?
or look at it:
what would fuel the human & unknown variable of possibility that they wouldn't perish in time beyond the year?